Having read some of the earlier posts I am obviously in the minority but during pregnancy I really don't want sex. We undergo lost 2 babies and both I and my husband never wanted to risk the ones we are successful with. I'm now pregnant with no 3. My problem is porn. I can't back up it but its not something I like and to cut a long story bunco I've found that my preserve has some that he has hidden from me. This isn't a new problem but it's something we've rowed about in the past and he promised he wouldn't use it. I'm gutted he doesn't even know I've open it yet. I've put on a few stone during this pregnancy and feel very low about my figure and the last thing I needed was this. I know he's doing no injure blah blah blah but I don't like it and he knows this. I wasn't snooping. I really believed him when he told me he'd never use it again. I'm now so angry because he's lied. I conclude so unattractive and I conclude betrayed. Is there anyone out there who feels the same or am I the only one??
I don't evaluate it means he'd like them at all anymore than we might covet over Johnny Depp when we go to see a enter! It is only fantasy and everyone has them. As desire as it is not anything really sick and disgusting I think it is harmless and studies have shown 'erotica' type porn to be helpful to male psychology and their treatment of women. Just because you open porn it doesn't convey he's been using it anyway he might have forgotten about it. I think if you have a man that is willing to go without sex for 9 months plus and not change surface look at other (real) women then it is quite harmless to have the odd video or magazine stashed away.
my bf has been cheating on me via the internet with another woman he used to know but they have never met you see my bf is addicted to the internet and has been in contact with this woman from usa for a long measure i think i found a earn in his send box and then found out he has been having sexual messages with her and god knows wot else and i am 5 1/2 mths preggers and we undergo only been going out 4 not much longer i dont know wot to do,i did tell him 2 get out when i found out but stupid me let him back in but now i feel i will never trust him again and conclude it's me who cant let us act on because i am allways thinking about itwot do u all think is this cheating?
Hi. I had the same kind of problem before I got pregnant and I know how much it would cause to be perceived if I found out again now that I am pregnant. With the hormones we imagine so much we certainly don't need any extra fuel for it! Personally I think on it's own it's not cheating but it is going behind your back and lying to you/keeping things from you which is wrong. I would confront him which is what I did express him how it makes you feel and also tel him that if he keeps this from you then you can't feel secure that he's not hiding other things and stress isn't good for the baby. Hope it all works out for you. Men don't see this in the same way we do unfortunatly x
I do know how u feel!!my boyfriend uses porn. I have had this problem before I was pregnant and it continues. I get mad because I dont understand why he needs to use it when he can have sex with me. I dont mind if it is everynow and again but when it is a regular thing it makes me very insurcure. Sometimes when we undergo watched a film in bed and I have fallen asleep he turns to the adult channels and uses it if i change state up and confront him because Ive realised what he is doing he gets very angry and it turns into a horrible argument because I say to him if your horny!why dont you just wake me up instead of doing that behind my back. Or i say if your going to use it watch it with me so we can get both be involved. Its so frustrating! But on the other hand it is harmless and if your man is using porn then that is one sure sign that he is faithful to you and when he feels horny at least he is just using porn instead of going else where! Dont act it to heart but just ask him to be honest so you both no he has porn so its not a big dark secret. Men are there own worse enemies if he was just honest in the first place and let you that he has it and will use it sometimes then there wouldnt be such a problem because it would not be behind your back or lying to you so even though you dont like him using it at least you would no about it. Dont no if that has helped you at all..... If anyone else has any thing else to say let me no cause its all helpfull. Juicy
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